So, you've made a contact, negotiated and exchanged ideas and preferences, and agreed a date, time and place.

A lot of investment in planning and creating a fantasy scenario can go into this.



Then, you are there, but the other party never shows up. No response to the mobile phone number or text. Afterwards, either a lame excuse or nothing at all. I'm sure other people have experienced this.

This has happened to me a couple of times with people from this site, the latest on Saturday. I'm not going to name the person in question, except that he richly deserves the caning he didn't receive, yet said he wanted. Did he bottle out or just too much effort?

Its more than a wasted opportunity, its bloody rude and bad etiquette.