There have been at a number of occasions when people have responded to my request for a spanking and the following has happened. I make apoint of saying that it is the eroticism of the occasion, the butterflies in the tummy and the physical experience of being over someone's knee that apeals to me.
What happens that just as we are about to make arrangements to meet the word 'punishment' appears in their email. We're not even in the same page. One person even mentioned that they wanted paying!



I'd be interested in the views of others with regard to this.