I am an older t,v, I have been spanked/caned/strapped/whipped in the past but so far have only experienced the real sting from a cane on 2 occasions and that was only from 1 or 2 of the 12 srtokes given. I would like to get the real sting that slowly subsides into a hot throb as the next stroke is given, but feel it for each of the decided number of strokes, I have yet to feel that a caning has felt really like a punishment. I can sometimes accomodate usually at weekends but am also willing to travel a reasonable distance