It seems to becoming more evident that people seem to think these two go together .
I honestly donot see since when being punished meant it was foreplay to sexual encounters.
Punishment is punishment,so why should anyone be rewarded with sexual favours at the end of it by the receiver of the punishment? This tends to be the thing mostly with males who say they are Dom expecting the spankee / bottom to finish them off with oral or more.



So to all out there who just seek play partners, is it not enough that someone submits enough to you to take the punishment, if not why not?

Personally for me the biggest thing I get out of it is that someone trusts me enough to actually offer their body up for the punishment .It really raises my endorphine levels and makes me sooooo happy especially when they leave with a huge smile on their face and have really enjoyed the experience without any sexual encounters.