Do you hide who you are???

[Barbedwire]

I suppose I have always been a bit different and believe that in being an 'openbook ' people are less likely to point the finger and usually if a subject comes up, I don't hide my interest in it .
I have found over the years there are actually more interested and want to know more or even be on the receiving end of my hand.I donot tell what I have done to whom or give any personal information but usually people endup finding certain subjects quite fascinating and some have informed me that in their life at some point they have dabbled in certain areas. It certainly is an icebreaker and can lead to many an amusing conversation .

[Bluebell73]

Never mind you did try. You can always take your frustration out on someones rear end when the hols are over.

BB73

[thelastcaress]

I prefer to be discrete just because of my work. Doing what i do and having this masochist thing seems slightly perverse to most i think, well at least those who don't know about it. I can honestly say that outwith the folks i've met on here i only have one friend in the real world who knows what i do and the only reason i trust her is because she's also 'kinky' so to speak and she's trusted me with stuff she's done too.

You can take your frustrations out on my rear after the hols if you like Aunty - pesky things these holidays

tlc

[red hand]

i really do admire those who can be completely open about these matters.
however i prefer not to disclose publicly.
i work (part time) in community centre where many children attend.
i require a advanced disclosure (scotland) to work there.
can you imagine the kind of publicity this would generate if i this was public knowledge.
i have family ,including grandchildren so think it,s best to keep these things totally private

[leedstights]

Absolutely, I mean, ultimately, what goes on between people behind closed doors is their business, and nobody elses. I could never get into the pub scenario, wheres blokes insist on harping on about what they did with their wives or girlfriends the previous night, I mean, whats that all about, surely what you do in the privacy of your own bedroom with your partner isn't a topic for conversation. I think it does depend on the person, most people dont feel the need to advertise their sexual preferences, likes and dislikes, and thats pretty much the kind of bloke I am, but, there are those who for some reason think that everybody wants to know theres, guess it takes all sorts.