where are all the ladies

[submissivebuffy]

Where are all the ladies We only get males on the site

i am here .. unsure how professionals are regardede on this site though.. dont wish to offend anyone.x

[goodspanker]

I an female. am looking for males to spank. I think my problem is location. Most people advertising are in the London, midlands and north. I am in Devon


Goodspanker

[Novice M 34]

It is getting frustrating!

Was really looking foward to getting involved with the 'scene'.

However it is incredibly hard work to befriend any female involved in the scene.

And I thought 'normal' dating was hard.

The only people who seem to enter the scene with any real enthusiam seem to be the commercials.

Am rapidly getting disillusioned lol

Any ideas people???!

[Sexystarfruit]

I think ladies could be put off by some of the members. I only joined recently hoping to meet someone who fits the bill for me. I was told off by another member for not wanting to meet a bi spanker - I am quite annoyed about of as it is up to me what and who I see.

[Andy]

This is something I have wondered about and I'll try to keep this the safe side of a rant. Unusually for a lot of people on this site I have made my orientation clear in my profile, too many haven't. Maybe I'm slow on the uptake or don't understand the code but I have approached males for which I end up apologising. Now it's starting to irk, I feel I'm apologising for how nature made me.

Some may say ... Now you now how it feels for us in the outside world. Whatever, be upfront. Advetising your deepest desires on this or any other site takes an element of bravery, so control the adrenilin rush all of you out there and give us a clue - Who are you and what are you expecting. Me? I have simple tastes I'm male and I'm looking for a woman to put over my knee.

I can understand the trepidation any woman wondering about posting on this site must feel, Top or Bottom. They are such a rare commodity that they must be deluged by messages, most probably containing a date tim ad room nuber. I believe it is important that email and chat takes place first to find out about each other, so that a level of trust can be established. Any bottom appoachng me is putting their vulnerability into my hands, therefore, trust has to be the basis of submission. So while I may offer the chance of a meeting I expect a lot of online contact first.

So ladies, women, wimen and females please post ... take your time sorting though the inevitable flood of messages and enjoy the attention (if our position were reversed, I would).

[Andy]

There are quite a few professionals on this site so they obviously find it profitable and for some they fill a need. For me, and probably others, I demand more than a stage set and the ticking of a countdown clock.

Hugs