What reasons were you spanked for as a kid?

**anarchistic_masochist** · 27-06-2010, 08:59 PM

Originally Posted by borocub

my dad would be fine with my two borthers. I found out after his father passed away that they wanted to abopt me. That's when the penny droped, that's why my dad did what he did. Well we never got on we did have other fall out but it was him that got hurt, not me.
May like you that's one reason why spanking and other punishment
became normal.

Out of all the times I was spanked as the kid, the incident with the cassette tapes is the only punishment that I think, even to this day, was unjustified. Being spanked was something that I was brought up with - it was always there, but it happened very rarely, and when it did, (apart from the aforementioned cassette tape incident) it was wholely deserved. There are things that I've done and that I've got away with, even to this day. They still weigh on my conscience. Other stuff that I've 'fessed up to and have since been spanked and caned for, I've been able to let go and forget about them - it's allowed me to move on. It's wonderfully cathartic. That's why the schoolgirl role play works so well; I'm a child again. It's like I can travel back in time and put wrong things right - I've got a second chance. It's brilliant!

Cherry x

**anarchistic_masochist** · 27-06-2010, 09:05 PM

Originally Posted by borocub

i'm sorry it effected you that way. Don't cry, it's in the past. I'm still here. My dad is not, he drunk him self to death.

That's ok - I'm glad I started this thread now. It's given you the means to express yourself and get stuff off your chest. I'm glad your partner looks after you and loves you. I'm a soppy sod - I'll cry at practically anything: weddings, films, Bambi (when the mummy deer is shot dead by a poacher at the start of the film)... I can't help it; it's just the way I am!

*huu-uuu-gs!*

Cherry x x

**borocub** · 27-06-2010, 09:08 PM

i've left all want my dad did to me in the past. I do enjoy been taken back to being a naughty school boi. I loved billy bunter, just william. I have a great partener i meet on another spanking sit. At moment i only see him ever 4weeks, but he nows i see other guys for spanking session and sometimes we have a 3way one.

**borocub** · 27-06-2010, 09:13 PM

i'm glad you posted this thread. There are many reason why people want to be spanked. We all have different needs.

**anarchistic_masochist** · 27-06-2010, 09:29 PM

Originally Posted by borocub

i've left all want my dad did in the past. I do enjoy been taken back to being a naughty school boi. I loved billy bunter, just william. I have a great partener i meet on another spanking sit. At moment i only see him ever 4weeks, but he nows i see other guys for spanking session and sometimes we have a 3way one.

Happy Days!!!

Can I ask you a question, 'Cub? You're dyslexic, aren't you? I bet you got grief for that when you were at school! It's still very easy to get the gist of what you're saying though. I can usually tell the difference between dyslexia, a typo and lazy-arsed illiteracy.

Big Hugs!

Cherry x

**borocub** · 27-06-2010, 09:39 PM

yes i did get alot of stick at school. From when i started school. It was hell at school. I was also very clumsy at school it is part of itas well i have short term memory problems. I have to use diferent coloured paper to read text. like i've said it's just spelling there's more to it.
I have a programme on my laptop that helps me when i'm typing out my art workshops. I only have the inner net on my phone so i do slip up quit a lot, i just laugh it off. That's me, life is to short.

**borocub** · 27-06-2010, 10:15 PM

so i was punished alot at school. I mainly got hand spanked on my bum by the teachers. Mainly for bad grades, spelling tests, messy work books, etc. I was not a naughty boi at school. Like i said in one post one teach picked me out as his whiping boi. He would punish me as an example to the other kids.
I was bitter in my late teens and lashed out at others, but i had alot of anger inside of me. Now producing art has helped me work out my past.

**anarchistic_masochist** · 27-06-2010, 11:08 PM

Originally Posted by borocub

yes i did get alot of stick at school. From when i started school. It was hell at school. I was also very clumsy at school it is part of itas well i have short term memory problems. I have to use diferent coloured paper to read text. like i've said it's just spelling there's more to it.
I have a programme on my laptop that helps me when i'm typing out my art workshops. I only have the inner net on my phone so i do slip up quit a lot, i just laugh it off. That's me, life is to short.

My partner is dyslexic - he hates text on red paper as he finds it difficult to read. I also know there's many types of dyslexia; the more severe forms of it involving short term memory problems and a lack of co-ordination. When I do Powerpoint presentations, I do yellow text on a blue background, as that's supposed to be the easiest to read. (I've got a teaching certificate that allows me to teach people over the age of 16 in a Further Education setting.) When I was at University, both my flatmates were also dyslexic. It's surprisingly common!

Cherry x

**borocub** · 28-06-2010, 07:44 AM

i use yellow paper, i do ues different coloured plastic sheets too. I was finally assesed and uni. I got help with my essays and computer to help me. Many of my family are the same mainly on my mam's side. At school they told me i was slow and backward, that's way i was punished so much.

**borocub** · 28-06-2010, 09:04 AM

thankyou sir,
Alot of my school friends i've talked to me have said to me "that i've done so well in my life." i have my granddad to thank for that as he always helped me. He was more like a dad to me. The time i spend with him was the best.