Getting In The Zone

**JodieLee** · 01-04-2010, 11:32 PM

I have not been in the spanking scene very long, just this year.
Perhaps it is the perfectionist in me, but for every session I have had, I prepare with absolute precision and make sure I have some time beforehand to completely focus on what the session is about. I like to know what to wear, how I am going to be, if there is anything to be expected (excuses, homework, particular positions/scenarios). I also like to spend some time thinking about the spanker and what he will do or say.
I find this all very good in building up the anticipation before a session.
I am sure I am not alone, does anyone else do the same?
Jodie
xxx

**Ted The Red** · 02-04-2010, 08:33 AM

I am the same, and suspect most others are, too. A meticulous attention to detail beforehand makes for a much better session. They tend to "flow" better, instead of producing those "stuttering and stammering" pregnant pause type moments, when you can almost hear brains being wracked by a participant trying to think of something to say. Also, i find it helps me focus on any age regression i go through during session.

Ted

**Pullingdown** · 02-04-2010, 10:37 AM

Yes JodieLee, that’s definitely me. One of things I most enjoy is writing the scenario for the next session I’m involved in. I like to put in lots of background to my scenarios and preferably some humour too, as well as details such as what the characters must wear. Since I’m a switch, there has to be a good reason why the characters have to swap roles, which can be tricky, especially since I don’t really like scenarios in which the spankee blackmails the spanker. I also think about what I want to say at different points in the scenario, even to the extent of writing it down and practicing it!

The combination of a good scenario and creative and imaginative players who’ve thought about it in advance is hard to beat!

**borocub** · 18-06-2010, 01:54 PM

i do like to perpare for a session. What i'm dressed in and the room. As i do like the both of us to enjoy the session even when i have a spanking party.

**anarchistic_masochist** · 18-06-2010, 02:57 PM

Jodie Lee, I'm exactly the same! My outfit is always planned in advance; pleasing the Top is always important too - some like a bit of defiance and cheek, others expect 100% submission. I try to psyche myself up for the event as well and focus on the thing that I'm being punished for. Knowing that I deserve it helps the submissive mind to really kick in.

Cherry x

**anarchistic_masochist** · 18-06-2010, 07:04 PM

Originally Posted by westender

Hey Covman what's happenin man. Let's get down here wit sum shit man.
Am lookin for some Action Man.

Now there is a line and a half for a joke. I am giving it to you man.

Yeah man, like, innit?

**anarchistic_masochist** · 18-06-2010, 07:17 PM

Originally Posted by westender

Did anyone speak to you?
Have you not got any embrodiery to do?

You're being very mean, Sir. And no, I can't sew for toffee.

Cherry x

**Michaeloxon** · 18-06-2010, 10:44 PM

Originally Posted by anarchistic_masochist

And no, I can't sew for toffee.

Cherry x

Sounds like a lesson needed

??

Michael xx

**anarchistic_masochist** · 18-06-2010, 11:35 PM

Originally Posted by Michaeloxon

Sounds like a lesson needed

??

Michael xx

I didn't realise you were an accomplished seamstress, Sir! Unless, of course, the tools of your "lesson" involves your hand, a paddle, a tawse and a cane (along with a lot of pain and humiliation!)

Cherry x

**Michaeloxon** · 21-06-2010, 11:21 PM

Originally Posted by anarchistic_masochist

I didn't realise you were an accomplished seamstress, Sir! Unless, of course, the tools of your "lesson" involves your hand, a paddle, a tawse and a cane (along with a lot of pain and humiliation!)

Cherry x

I have done some in the past, so can probably help you start.

My slipper might come in handy - what do you think ?

Michael xx