I have not been in the spanking scene very long, just this year.
Perhaps it is the perfectionist in me, but for every session I have had, I prepare with absolute precision and make sure I have some time beforehand to completely focus on what the session is about. I like to know what to wear, how I am going to be, if there is anything to be expected (excuses, homework, particular positions/scenarios). I also like to spend some time thinking about the spanker and what he will do or say.
I find this all very good in building up the anticipation before a session.
I am sure I am not alone, does anyone else do the same?
Jodie
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