Nobody prepared to accommodate

**peterlondon** · 22-02-2010, 04:38 PM

I went to clubcp (if that's the one at Vauxhall) and thought it horrible. Didn't find any private rooms, only darkened rooms with no doors and guys outside peering in. Not my scene at all.

**borocub** · 22-02-2010, 05:05 PM

i've been told that bois and sirs cp club is good.

**KATIE TV** · 23-02-2010, 02:19 PM

I have been a Pro. Dom/sub TV.(I charge for my services) for a number of years and yes most of my clients are playing away from home so can’t accomadate. But in all those years I have only had a couple that I would not see again, It is a shame that people can not be more open about what they like to do.

**borocub** · 23-02-2010, 05:23 PM

it would be good if people would be open and state what they want and age they like to have a session with. I'm always up front and i now what i like and don't like. Also respect limits.

**borocub** · 15-08-2010, 01:45 PM

also it would be better as well if the message would not start with 'do you need a good thrashing'. As respect is earned not expected.

**mike_redbotham** · 15-08-2010, 02:40 PM

Originally Posted by borocub

also it would be better as well if the message would not start with 'do you need a good thrashing'. As respect is earned not expected.

Surely, it is a question of vocabulary and perception. One man's "good thrashing" is another's gentle smacking.
There is a huge range of desires out there.
I find it useful to ask potential spankees what they are looking for on a scale of 1 - 10 where 1 is playful patting and 10 is drawing blood (which I would hate to do).

Of course, experienced tops know just how far to go but new bottoms do not know how experienced prospective tops are.

I am able to accommodate but, unless I have been talking to someone on line for a considerable time, always insist on meeting for the first time at a neutral, public venue such as a pub or supermarket cafe. At least this gives the opportunity for an instant assessment and a possible way-out if something seems wrong.

**borocub** · 15-08-2010, 03:00 PM

Originally Posted by mike_redbotham

Surely, it is a question of vocabulary and perception. One man's "good thrashing" is another's gentle smacking.
There is a huge range of desires out there.
I find it useful to ask potential spankees what they are looking for on a scale of 1 - 10 where 1 is playful patting and 10 is drawing blood (which I would hate to do).

Of course, experienced tops know just how far to go but new bottoms do not know how experienced prospective tops are.

I am able to accommodate but, unless I have been talking to someone on line for a considerable time, always insist on meeting for the first time at a neutral, public venue such as a pub or supermarket cafe. At least this gives the opportunity for an instant assessment and a possible way-out if something seems wrong.

I'm total agreement with you. If a guy gets pushy, when i'm not sure if i want to meet him then i call it off. As it is me getting the spanking, as i'm not into long lasting marks or drawing blood.

**anarchistic_masochist** · 16-08-2010, 12:34 AM

I always make it clear that I can't accommodate. My place is very, very small indeed! Luckily, the Tops that have spanked me have either paid for a hotel or are able to put me up (or should that be "put up with me"? Heh heh!)

Cherry x

jennysub · 16-08-2010, 01:20 AM

Firstly why should someone accomodate?

If you need it that bad and cannot accomodate yourself then sort your own problem out by finding it elsewhere, not whingeing no one else wants to do or risk what you cannot do or do not want to risk.

I run, in my other form, a once a month detention class for between 4-7 pupils, all of them known to me, all of them "safe", all of them I know will not abuse th situation. anyone else, whether its me receiving or giving, sorry, you find the venue.

There are plenty of places that for a fee, a lot of times a really modest fee, provide facilities. It suprises me, as someone associated with the professional scene, that people will happily attend a party, £135 - £175 per head, food, drink, safety, discretion, lots of butts to spank, guaranteed satisfaction, and be quite happy yet on a one to one will say "I'll pop over, you don't know me, but let me into your flat to commit an assault upon your body, provide me with coffee etc.... " and be suprised when the answer is "..er... no thanks".

**borocub** · 16-08-2010, 02:28 PM

Originally Posted by jennysub

Firstly why should someone accomodate?

If you need it that bad and cannot accomodate yourself then sort your own problem out by finding it elsewhere, not whingeing no one else wants to do or risk what you cannot do or do not want to risk.

I run, in my other form, a once a month detention class for between 4-7 pupils, all of them known to me, all of them "safe", all of them I know will not abuse th situation. anyone else, whether its me receiving or giving, sorry, you find the venue.

There are plenty of places that for a fee, a lot of times a really modest fee, provide facilities. It suprises me, as someone associated with the professional scene, that people will happily attend a party, £135 - £175 per head, food, drink, safety, discretion, lots of butts to spank, guaranteed satisfaction, and be quite happy yet on a one to one will say "I'll pop over, you don't know me, but let me into your flat to commit an assault upon your body, provide me with coffee etc.... " and be suprised when the answer is "..er... no thanks".

If i may ask do you charge a fee. I looked at the commercial servies on here most are in london. I use my place for meets, as i can't trav. I have said no thanks to quite a few guys, but i have made some great mates.