I'm looking for an experienced, patient, mature, older spanker to help me explore my desire for a spanking, plus lots of soothing rubbing to make it all better. A respected professional type, perhaps in education or in the pastoral services would be ideal.

I'm new to this and understandably nervous about posting this ad, so I'm looking for someone who is happy with email communication and online chat initially, so we can get to know each other. How would you reassure a newbie like me? I'm not sure of the best way to approach this, so any and all suggestions will be gratefully appreciated.