Had a very unusual experience late last year. I went to a London bar and met a middle aged Irish guy who had been strapped at school. He wanted to get his own back on someone who looked like a school master type. I found him very attractive and agreed to have my pants pulled down while laid across his lap and let him use his belt on me. It hurt a lot but afterwards he stroked my sore bum until the worst of the stinging had worn off and then we had conventional sex. He topped me. Seems he had always wanted to spank an older guy. Exciting for me too because I never thought anything like that could happen to an older man.