Meetings which never happen

Thank you ive just managed a profile pick

I have been set up by a domme before and received another invitation that was too good to be true that involved a meet up in a motel 100 miles from home, but did have a genuine reason to cancel a session with a domme last weekend. She lived very close to where my ex lives and as my ex is very vindictive and tried to out me on Facebook and set me up on Fetlife, this was one person I didn't want to see as no doubt she would start shouting in the street if she saw me. Much as what the domme was offering was excellent, with a low tribute, I felt the stakes would be too high.