Essex man seeks hot sore bum!

Help! My "Headmaster" has had to retire due to ill health.
The above says it all really, I enjoy OTK hand spanking, also most other implements either OTK/over lap or bent over the back of a chair or similar. I can't say that I enjoy the cane but I do need it sometimes.
I prefer to be naked throughout a session, I am not naturally submissive but being naked helps to get my head in the right place. While I would occasionally be prepared to meet for just a simple 12 of the best, I would prefer a longer session. I am happy to meet straight, bi or gay men & have no objection to wandering hands. So far I have not had any sexual content but wouldn't rule it out. I can't accomodate as I have a young relative living with me but marks aren't a problem. I would prefer to meet someone in Essex or E. london area, also N. Kent.