Does it matter what the spanker looks like?

[Brummy Spanker]

Do you only want to be spanked by someone you fancy, or is it just about the experience of being spanked?

[paul_richards3]

Do you only want to be spanked by someone you fancy, or is it just about the experience of being spanked?

For me it's all about being spanked.

[borocub]

it's the spanking, and male bounding. Also respect on both sides. Ie limits, safe word,etc.

[samantha_tv]

Basically it is about the spanking. The appearance of the spanker can improve the session, although not related to whether I am attracted to them.

For example an older man may have more authority, or being spanked by a male or female who was several years younger than me would add to the humiliation.

[anarchistic_masochist]

It's not so much the appearance of the spanker - it's the overall "vibe" that they give off. Do they have an aura of authority? Can he cut you down to size with a certain look or a choice word? Posture and tone of voice is very important. Clothing to a lesser degree can also play a part, for example, if the Top is male, then a suit to me denotes authority.

Cherry x

[TeessideBen]

Looks don't matter if all your having is some cp and bondage fun as long as the spanker plays by the rules and uses limites and safe words your fine.